Natalie’s story: From diagnosis to double transplant

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After battling uterine fibroids, Natalie Grubbs was unexpectedly diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia, followed by a rare secondary cancer that required two stem cell transplants. Here, the Atlanta resident shares her story in her own words — from diagnosis and treatment to healing, hope and resilience. 

What are the events that led up to your cancer diagnosis? 

Before my cancer diagnosis, I had suffered from uterine fibroids for years. The fibroids caused miscarriages, a distended abdomen and excruciating periods with extremely heavy bleeding. When the fibroids began impacting everyday life — causing me to miss work and events — I went to my gynecologist to consult about a hysterectomy. She ordered a complete blood count (CBC) to determine whether the heavy bleeding had led to anemia, which would further justify a hysterectomy.

What we found, along with anemia, was an extremely high white blood count. She recommended I contact my primary care

physician, who ordered a repeat CBC. When the white blood count remained elevated, I was referred to Dr. H. Kent Holland at The Blood & Marrow Transplant Group of Georgia. Within a few weeks of those tests and a bone marrow biopsy, I was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL).

What treatment did you receive?

Within hours of my diagnosis, I was admitted to Northside Hospital’s Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) Unit for three weeks to begin treatment. The first step was several phases of Hyper-CVAD, a high-dose chemotherapy regimen specifically designed to fight aggressive blood cancers like ALL. Over four months, this intensive treatment worked to eliminate the leukemia cells in my body. Because the treatment is so aggressive, it required either hospitalization or daily monitoring in the BMT clinic, which meant I could not work. I also had to avoid all public spaces due to my severely weakened immune system.

Once I completed Hyper-CVAD, I underwent a stem cell transplant using my brother as the donor. Because we were a 100% match, we had high hopes for success. Before the transplant, I went through a process called conditioning — preparation for receiving donor stem cells. This involved a week of high-dose chemotherapy combined with twice-daily full-body radiation to clear out my bone marrow and make space for the new, healthy cells.

Unfortunately, within the first 100 days following the transplant, I developed a secondary cancer: acute myeloid leukemia (AML). This is a rare but serious complication, and my doctors quickly pivoted to a new treatment plan. I began another intensive chemotherapy regimen, which combined multiple chemotherapy drugs and pegaspargase to target AML. After three months, I underwent a second stem cell transplant.

This time, the transplant was a haploidentical transplant, or haplo transplant, using my mother as the donor. A haplo transplant uses a donor who is only a 50% genetic match, which is possible thanks to advances in transplant techniques that reduce the risk of complications.

The post-transplant recovery is a grueling, phased process with daily BMT clinic treatments, including blood and platelet transfusions, fluids and constant monitoring for complications. The main complication is host-versus-graft disease (HVGD), which happens when your donor’s cells fight with your own, as well as infection. Both can lead to life-threatening illnesses. I had a mild case of HVGD that attacked my skin, resulting in an itchy rash on my torso. I was also hospitalized several times after my port became infected, with one episode leading to a stay in the ICU when my body went into septic shock.

I began to feel like myself after my mom’s cells took over and I began to rebuild my immune system. I felt less weak, my mobility improved and my appetite began to return. I started to choose nicer outfits instead of sweats and overworn T-shirts for clinic visits and even began wearing a bit of makeup. That small shift helped me emerge from the foggy identity of being a patient. About eight months after my second transplant, I returned to work and began to resume old routines like going to church.

How and where did you receive support during your treatment and recovery?

Most of my support came from my immediate family — my husband, parents, brother, sister-in-law and three children, including an adult daughter — along with close friends and coworkers. The nurses, technicians, nurse practitioners and doctors at the Northside BMT Unit became like family. I lived with them for the first three weeks of my diagnosis, and there are no words to express the care and support I received. Talking with them during morning walks to the patient pantry and chatting about my kids was healing.

My friends and family helped by organizing meal trains and sending items to make my hospital room feel more like home. Some even sent things like Easter baskets so I could celebrate holidays while in the hospital. A few of my friends coordinated with my husband to ensure my kids had a sense of normalcy with playdates and outings. My Spelman sisters and Morehouse brothers collected thousands of dollars to help my husband with prepared meals while I was sick or hospitalized, since I was the primary cook at the time.

Just knowing I had support helped me focus my strength and attention on healing. Human connection reminded me that — even with cancer — I was still a person with friends, children and a family who loved me.

Later in recovery, I found a Facebook group for moms facing cancer (Cancer Is a Mother: Moms Fighting Cancer) and Bright Spot Network. These became my favorite sources of support from people who truly understood . I posted questions and offered advice to other mothers going through treatment while caring for children. Bright Spot offered resources and support groups for moms and kids, along with advice for managing cancer and parenting at the same time.

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For humor, I followed @thecancerpatient on Instagram, a young adult cancer group that uses humor to raise awareness about the cancer experience. Laughing at those relatable posts helped me cope and feel like part of a community, which is crucial during such an isolating illness.

Did you utilize patient support resources at Northside Hospital Cancer Institute? If so, which would you recommend?

The psych-oncology services in the BMT Unit were amazing. The oncology clinical social worker visited my hospital room frequently to help me process my diagnosis and cope with the overwhelming uncertainty.

I was also fortunate to attend the 2024 Northside Cancer Survivor Retreat. It was life-changing — nature hikes, psychoeducation and healing art activities. I connected with other thrivers and made lifelong friends. I highly recommend taking advantage of thriver opportunities and seeking emotional support, even if you’re unsure you need it.

What advice do you have for someone navigating their treatment and recovery journey?

For me, mindset was extremely important. I found an anchor Scripture (Jeremiah 29:11) and an anchor song — “Firm Foundation” by Maverick City Music. I focused on the promises they offered, that I would make it through. My advice is to find something positive, something that fills you with hope. Think of the reasons you want to survive and focus on the small steps you can take to keep going.

I like to be in control, but there was nothing I could do about my blood cells. So I took things one day at a time and focused on a short to-do list: pray, write in my gratitude journal, eat, drink and move.

Learning to speak up made a difference. I shared with my nurses when something didn’t feel right and talked with my family about my feelings. When I was worried about my kids, I thought of specific needs and asked the person I trusted most to help.

How far out are you from treatment, or is treatment ongoing?

Next month marks my second “rebirthday” — the second anniversary of my second stem cell transplant. I’ve been in remission for two years and out of treatment for almost one year. I still visit the BMT clinic once every six weeks for blood count monitoring and undergo annual restaging with a bone marrow biopsy and blood tests to ensure I remain disease-free.

Closing thoughts

One of the most helpful things I’ve done is share my story. It helps me process what happened because it all unfolded so quickly. It has helped me reckon with the trauma of such a severe illness and find words for what helped me get through.

I hope others find hope and connection in my story. I hope my journey inspires others to find strength and community in their own battles.